Mind Over Matter
Sometime life is tough, it throws tons of bricks at you and makes you feel numb to the bone. In all that we lose all our optimism and suck energy out of others. Acting like we are victims of the situations, circumstance, or bad cards dealt to us, however you like to interpret it. But really why do we act like victims, why do we want sympathy? Why do we feel that injustice was done to us, are we narcissistic and we love ourselves so much that any sort of harm done to us is something we did not deserve? You know how people keep throwing around the quote that “life is what we make it”, well it really is, accepting everything as a reason for it’s happening, not attaching to much emotions to great or bad situations, will help you deal with it in a more calm way. In fact everything does happen for a reason, if only we had the time to stop, breath, take it all in, we all dont have the luxuary to look inside of us, cause time is ticking and we have 10 million other things to finish. So what now? what do we do, keep moving till we encounter the same thing again? and this time your life WTF, again!? are you serious, i thought i already dealt with this, but really you didn’t, cause if you did then your interpretation of that event would have been different this time and you wouldnt have felt this way. So next time something ridiculous or crazy mind twisting even takes place in your life, why dont you write it out and learn how to better approach it, maybe write down steps of what you will do if you meet this monster again, the first step, second step and third step. Make peace with the fact that you had to deal with it in the first place. Look at as a life experience rather than an unfortunate event. You have to change the perspective or else it will just make you feel brutal and slowly eat you away, and your negativity will show through other little things.
