Sometime life is tough, it throws tons of bricks at you and makes you feel numb to the bone. In all that we lose all our optimism and suck energy out of others. Acting like we are victims of the situations, circumstance, or bad cards dealt to us, however you like to interpret it. But really why do we act like victims, why do we want sympathy? Why do we feel that injustice was done to us, are we narcissistic and we love ourselves so much that any sort of harm done to us is something we did not deserve? You know how people keep throwing around the quote that “life is what we make it”, well it really is, accepting everything as a reason for it’s happening, not attaching to much emotions to great or bad situations, will help you deal with it in a more calm way. In fact everything does happen for a reason, if only we had the time to stop, breath, take it all in, we all dont have the luxuary to look inside of us, cause time is ticking and we have 10 million other things to finish. So what now? what do we do, keep moving till we encounter the same thing again? and this time your life WTF, again!? are you serious, i thought i already dealt with this, but really you didn’t, cause if you did then your interpretation of that event would have been different this time and you wouldnt have felt this way. So next time something ridiculous or crazy mind twisting even takes place in your life, why dont you write it out and learn how to better approach it, maybe write down steps of what you will do if you meet this monster again, the first step, second step and third step. Make peace with the fact that you had to deal with it in the first place. Look at as a life experience rather than an unfortunate event. You have to change the perspective or else it will just make you feel brutal and slowly eat you away, and your negativity will show through other little things.
I dont know if i want to make this blog available to the people i know yet, I dont know if i want to be an anonymous writer or disclose my identity fully. Sometimes you “just dont know” and it’s okay to feel that way. And In all honesty we are all human and pretty much the same, we are separated by 6 steps from any other person in the world according to Frigyes Karinthy ( i didnt know the persons name, i had to look it up, thank you google, and i also dont know how the hell this person figured out such a cool concept but it’s pretty darn amazing), any ways back on topic we all feel things, we all pretty much want the same thing, to know we are loved and to know we make a difference. Then why is this life so pretty damn complicated?! It just is and even in it’s complex, twisted ways it’s beautiful :). I hope to inspire people with my experiences, my thoughts, and share all the crazy I have to offer, let this journey begin!
Some blogging statistics, Now i am officially a part of the 42 million blogs that exist. I’ve always wanted to start blogging and I never started, I kept diaries mainly and a little memory box, but now with technology advancing, I thought i connect my thoughts to the world with the use of tumblr, the opportunities are endless.